You don’t have to tell her now or anytime soon. It’s only when you are ready and sure about it. Spence, I didn’t mean to make you upset. (things finally started to cool down...)
Spencer: You don’t think I’ve heard what they say about you Ash?
Ashley: I don’t care what they say, and you shouldn’t either.
(I might have sounded a little defensive)
Spencer: I don’t. I just...I
Ashley: You must, or else you wouldn’t have brought it up in the first place?
Spencer: Ashley! I don’t want to get hurt. This whole thing is kinda a big deal...Kissing you was kinda a big deal to me and you play it off like we aren’t even at a relationship we are just “Close” I’m sorry, but it really feels like a situation where you could just say there is no commitment.
Ashley: I’ve never been good with commitment Spence...
(Long pause...oh great.)
Spencer: Well then you shouldn’t start anything with me until you are “good with commitment” (she gets out and slams the car door. God why do I always have to mess things up? This is a great way to get rid of one of the best things I have right now...well had.)